My name is Julia and am in tears. My friends think I am infertile without knowing it’s my husband who is impotent.My family is putting pressure on me to give birth but I am unable to explain to them that it’s my husband who has failed me.
I got married 4 years ago at a church wedding that cost us Ksh2.1 million, even prominent personalities attended. My main aim of getting married to this man was to get children but I am greatly disappointed.
Four years down the line, my husband has not managed to give me a child, I have tried to feed him well and help him seek medication but he has not managed to fulfill his duties. Everyday he says he will one day sire children, even twins but I have waited he fulfill his promise but in vain.
Two years ago I strayed and in the process I got pregnant, but after 4 months I managed to procure abortion to prevent my man from asking questions. Now I know I can get pregnant.
I sought advice from several people, even a marriage counsellor, and they all told me to either divorce my husband or get pregnant for another man.I am now confused,can I divorce this impotent man?
