Give this Kisii man a trophy!!!A Kamba woman has confessed how she feels when her Kisii husband is doing “mchigicho”
“I am married to a Kisii man by the name Motika.I met him in Nairobi’s Industrial area when we were working in Weetabix. God was not generous when he created my husband (he is not handsome) but I loved the way he begged me…not his looks. After begging I become his wife, I finally accepted. Immediately I did so, he introduced me to his parents in Maarani.I was happy.
The reason I accepted him is because I know with his looks,few women would accept his advances. In other words, he will be mine.for the six months we had known each other,nilimnyima kabisa,kabisa.I remember there is a time he knelt down and said,”gaki gaki nipe,I will do everything for you”, but I said no-I left him wiping tears.
After I accepted, that day he bought meat, 2kgs, soda kubwa and a big loaf.He told me.”leo pika haraka, nataka kuamka mapema kesho”.He then gave me Ksh 500 and told me,”wacha hiyo pesa ichunge mfuko”.
That day he kept on coming to kitchen to see whether I have cooked. At one time he told me,”weka maji mingi ya ugari,pia uweke supu”.I obeyed all his commands since I was new in that house.
After we took supper (kisii men can eat), he told me,”kucha turare sasa”.At 8.30 pm we were in bed. The next 8 hours were full of drama. Immediately we landed on bed, he started, he couldn’t wait I prepare myself. What surprised me was how he was doing it,mara nilisikia,”nakufa nakufa,nishike”.He finished and relaxed.Imagine that night he didn’t leave me to relax…alimaliza sita.
The following day he did the same,the third day hivo hivo until I got used(mkisii atakusukumia hadi utoe ulimi nje).Sometimes you will hear him say,”obe obe obe egwansa…I don’t know what this means. But I am happy I got married to him,I have leant a lot”.