I did my wedding in 2010 to my 2-year boyfriend who was then selling scrap metals. The wedding was colurful and we decided to settle down. The first two years he was okay until he became busy after he started exporting scrap metals to Dubai.
At some point I felt lonely, my man was always on air and I was left home with my baby. Teddy, who is my husband, would come home 2 days and disappear for 2 weeks. Even when he is at home, he was unable to satisfy me in bed. Teddy has money, any time he leaves for Dubai, he leaves behind Ksh100,000 for shopping. But I don’t enjoy the money since I am lonely.
As a woman who also wants to feel like other married women, I thought I needed someone. But the problem I faced was that I was unable to express myself to men, all the men around knew I was married. I kept the feeling to myself.
One day, as I was visiting my friend in Rongai, I found a kind hearted man, the conductor of that Nganya.We exchanged numbers and I alighted.
A day later ,we started chatting on WhatsApp.The conversation became normal as time went until one day I found myself giving in.The experience I got made me almost divorce my husband. Imagine my husband barely stays on me for 5 minutes but this man would take up to one hour..I feel good.
Now my problem is that I am unable to leave this conductor even as my husband found out that I am cheating.I don’t know what Teddy is planning to do to me but I am ready to sacrifice my marriage.
I want to know whether I am making the right decision. My conductor friend tells me that he is ready to marry me if I am divorced. He says he gets Ksh 3,000 per day, which is enough to take care of me”