My name is Jared and I have a problem. I lost my job in 2016 and ever since I have been jobless. I have tried to look for one but I haven’t been successful.
My wife is a secretary in a Law firm. She got the job two years ago after she quit her education career. Her current salary is Ksh 33,000.The problem is that our monthly house rent is Ksh 12,000 but I am unable to pay.
When I lost my job,I wanted to move to a bedsitter but she told me not to worry.She started paying the full rent and also footing major bills in our house.She also gives me at least Ksh5,000 per month, but I am not so comfortable with that-since I have no option, I reluctantly take the money.
I have all along wondered how she manages to pay all the bills yet her salary is meager.Recently,I discover in her email account serious conversation with her boss.In one of the emails, the boss had written, “sweetheart, I love everything about you,I will do everything to protect you. We can meet for coffee today evening, if possible we spend some time at …Ken’s hotel before we depart”
My wife replied, “yes babe,I hope my husband won’t call”.ukitoka unipick”.
The email disturbed me but I was afraid to ask her since she is the one who pays the bills.
I always pretend I don’t know what is going on between her and the boss. Sometimes she even go outside to receive calls from the boss. What bothers me most is that she is doing it with impunity.
I have a 7-year-boy who Iove most. I fear to lose her to my wife if I apply for divorce.I am in serious pain because of what is happening in my life. I am bleeding inside and there is no one I would tell my problems. I believe one day God will open doors for me, for now they are all closed”