Love is a beautiful thing. The feeling is heavenly sweet when the other person loves you back with the same intense. However, it is hurting when the one you love doesn’t seem to return the love you feel for him or her.
Here are some of the things you should do when you love someone who doesn’t love you back
- Accept the fact that you can’t control the other person
It is draining and hurting when you try so hard to pull the other person to love you back when they don’t want to. If you are in such a situation, dismiss those feelings that you could change that person to love you.
- Give yourself space
Get yourself busy. Avoid any form of closeness with that person; be it communication or physical contact. This will help you forget about him or her as you get ready to move on with life.
- Believe that you are better off without that person
Yes! Tell yourself this every time the feeling crosses your mind. Because what will you gain loving some so much who loves another person not you? You will get by easily on this one if that person has ever wronged you; concentrate on that so you may actually hate him/her!
If you only can think of the good things that guy has done, poor you because you will only get sick of loving him more!
- Don’t talk mean to him or about him
Ladies most times try to move on from men who don’t love them back by speaking hurting words and saying mean things about them. This doesn’t work and will not help you but will rather leave you more bitter and angry
- Don’t blame anyone!
This is foolishness to look for whom to blame for your suffering! Who can you blame for love? Looking for whom to blame will only prevent you from healing.
- Don’t do things that remind you about him or her
Doing things that reminds you of your so called love will make it harder for you to move on. Try new experiences different from what he or she used to do. I repeat keep yourself busy to avoid memory triggers. Unfriend him/her on Facebook, unfollow him/her on instagram or twitter, delete contacts,messages and whatsapp chats lest you want to get heart attacks.
- Be close to your friends.
Be wise to keep your old friends when you get into a relationship because you will need them someday, like this day! Your friends are very important during such times. Visit your friends, go out with them and have fun. They will help you heal faster and who knows, you may find your real love out there!
