A Kikuyu man is lamenting and regretting why he married a circumcised Kisii woman.Mr.Njoroge, who befriended the wife while in college, says this:
“I am at crossroads. My wife Nyaboke is not the type I expected to live with for the rest of my life.I got engaged to her while at Kenyatta University and since I thought she was a wife material, I ended up marrying her.
It happened that she got pregnant few days into our graduation…I think she trapped me,and since I didn’t want my generation to go into a waste,I married her. At first she was wonderful but with time there is one thing that irritated me,I have never told anyone but decided to share with your readers.This lady does not rise,ni baridi sana kitandani.I have tried all I can,even to feed her well and massage her to the best of my ability but she is still cold.Tukienda kulala mimi namwambia ‘sasa tufanye’ but instead of doing all the acrobats other women do,she just lie there flat na kuniambia nikimaliza nimwambie.One thing that irritates me most is that she is circumcised.She even confessed it’s the reason she is cold…hana appetite kabisa.
Each time I am with this woman in the house,I question myself, “is this the life I would lead until we get old!”.I am now confused whether to marry a second wife or I just persevere with this one.I am stressed because she is even not allowing me to have a girlfriend”