There are things that men often do that puts women off without even realizing it. They are the major issues that lead to friendship that has not even graduated to relationship to end.
- TAKING TOO MUCH ABOUT YOUR BEDROOM PROWESS AND SENDING NUDE PICTURES OF YOURSELF. Men tend to think that what women want is just sex, so they mostly exaggerate how big their dicks are and how good they are in bed and when the woman finally gives them a chance they have the smallest off them all. If you have never slept with her and you decide to send her a picture of your penis that she didn’t ask for you look absolutely weird. Also, if you have slept with her, she already knows what your dick looks like. You may think it’s a turn on but actually it’s a turn off.
- SENDING ONE WORD TEXT. She just typed out a long paragraph and after reading it the best reply she gets is an ‘’K’’… women really hate this. Try to reciprocate her effort with a more thought out text.
- STALKING HER ONLINE. Women don’t find it endearing when they are having a conversation with you and you interject by saying ‘’oo yeah, I know. You posted it on your Facebook wall last night. You are a stalker bro, let her live her life.
- WEARING TOO MUCH COLOGNE. Women like their men smelling good, but dipping yourself in too much body spray is never the right thing to do, how do you expect her to breathe? What are you hiding under all that cologne don’t exacerbate her allergies with your overzealous use of fragrance?
- TALKING ABOUT SEX WHEN YOU FIRST MEET THEM. It is unattractive to hear a man you do not know talk about all the shit he wants to do to you. It makes you look like a sex pervert. Randomly inboxing a lady and saying you are so sexy that I would drink your bathwater or I would suck your toes. This is a complete turn off and believe you me it is the fasted way to be blacklisted.
- BLAMING HER EMOTIONS ON HER PERIOD. Women get upset for a number of reasons and her menstrual cycle isn’t always to blame for her moodiness. You may think you are helping by suggesting that her mood swings are out of her control but you are making things worse. Making her period the scapegoat for her emotions also suggests that she has no self-control and is not thinking or behaving rationally.
- FAILING TO MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT. Look at her when she is talking to you, even if you are not interested in what she is saying and you are not really listening. Women hate being ignored when she is talking to you just look at her and pretend you are listening.
- ASKING FOR NUDE PICTURES. If the only time you text her complete sentences is when you are asking for naked pictures sent to your inbox you need to check yourself. Of all the things on her to do list taking nude selfies for you is not a priority. Women don’t exist for your sexual pleasure, so don’t treat them as if that is their sole purpose in your life.
- INNITIATE CONVERSATIONS THEN GO OFF. Don’t hit a woman up just to get her attention, and then drift off once she replies. She responded, and so she wants to talk, don’t annoy her by going LMAO or LOL, after the initial pleasantries.
- NOT TALKING THE DAY YOU HAVE SET PLANS. She did her hair, done her makeup bought a new dress for that date but it’s almost 3pm and you have not called or picked her up. This really pisses women off.
- COMPARING HER TO OTHER WOMEN. How would you feel if the girl you really like decides to tell you how you should start going to the gym and get more biceps just like her best friend mark. You would be pissed right? Simple. Same as women don’t compare her to another woman it makes her feel useless.
- GUYS WHO EXERGERATE HOW GOOD THEY ARE. Women don’t want to know how many women you have been with, or have been able to get under the sack. It is no way attractive.
- BEING SUGGESTIVE TOO SOON. Women hate guys that get too suggestive with them way too soon. Like what are you wearing tonight? What’s the color of your panty and you’ve been talking to her for only 2 weeks, this is a complete turn off.
- PROMISE MAKERS. Women hate men who continuously make promises but never keeps any. If you cannot keep one don’t make one.
- IRRESPONSIBLE MEN. Women hate irresponsible men who cannot do anything for themselves, their house is a mess, the kitchen sink is horrible, totally disorganized.
- COMPLAINING A LOT. Women don’t like whiney men who complain about the same thing and not doing anything about it, complaining why the price of Unga has gone up, complaining about the hiked fare prices, overly complaining or even bargaining for items in malls puts women off.
- POOR HYGIENE. Bad breath and overall poor hygiene or grooming isn’t attractive at all. Can you imagine the woman you are trying to win over doesn’t change her wig in 2 months, how will that feel?
- NO SELF CONTROL. The notion that men will be just men is not an excuse to just stare at every woman that walks your way to an extent of even turning to just look at them. This definitely puts women off big time.
- PHONE ADDICTS. Women love attention and a man who is ignoring her is a bygone case. men who cannot get off their phones, even after you meet they are just chatting on Instagram, Facebook or receiving way to long calls. I mean! She also has a phone but decided to keep it aside why can’t you do the same? This completely shows you are least interested in her. Believe you me that is the last time you will see her.