I am Albert from Kirinyaga.I am in a big mess.
In 2011 I confirmed I am impotent after I failed to sire a child despite trying all my best.My wedding was in 2009 and as usually, what had to follow is a child. My family waited for two good years as we struggled in the house to get our first child. It became imminent results were not forthcoming when I finally visited a doctor. I intentionally made the decision because my wife had sought to know who between us was the problem. That morning,I didn’t tell my wife I was going, I was planning to surprise her with the information. I arrived at Mater Hospital and did the test.Unfortunately,the doctor broke the bad news for me.
On arrival at home I also told my wife to go for medical a check up,I actually gave her my number. The following morning she went to the same doctor and came with results.
That same evening, she gave a complete result to me .That was when I discovered she was okay while the problem was squarely on me.Now my worry was that she could leave me.It stressed me a lot as reality hit me that I won’t sire any child.
After few weeks of pondering on my next move, I decided to talk with my wife.I had shared my problem with one of my high school friends and told him everything should be a secret.My wife agreed to sleep with my friend so as to get pregnant.
I did this, whenever I wanted him to sleep with wife,I would go to visit my parents back at home and return after two days.
After few months, my wife told me she was pregnant and in 9 months she delivered.
Summarily, my friend has fathered three children for me and I am okay with that.But my problem is that in 2017 I bought land in kitengela which I registered under my name.When my wife realized that her name didn’t feature anywhere, she threatened to leave me for my friend,saying otherwise she doesn’t have any of my children. I asked my friend about the issue and he has said he doesn’t have any problem with that,afterall he is single.I may commit suicide if my wife dumps me.Please advise me.