Before a man decides to marry a woman,there are things he gives first priority
Good looks are a huge benefit for a girl trying to catch a man’s attention. But it’s not enough to make him fall in love and dream about building a long and happy relationship
While every man is different, there are certain things about a woman that will make any man stand up, take notice, and make him decide he wants to get to know you on a deeper level. If you want to win the right man’s heart, you need to know what it is that makes a man go from just feeling casual about dating you to wanting and needing you on a deeper level. I’m going to take you inside a man’s mind so you understand what it takes to trigger this kind of connection other than beauty.
- Supportive
Behind every king is a queen that carried him when he could not. You are the queen to your king, be his backbone and the foundation he relies on for help when no one else will offer it. This not only proves to him you will be there through it all but also makes your relationship bulletproof.
- Unpredictable
Nobody likes to come home every day and repeat the same day over and over again for the rest of their lives. Keep the relationship interesting by throwing in some spontaneity, by doing so he will stay interested in you.
- A Sense of Adventure
Men absolutely adore women who live life to the fullest. This includes a willingness to try new things and even take risks. Whether it’s going kayaking, hiking a mountain or skydiving, an adventurous woman sure beats a girlfriend who just sits around on the sofa knitting sweaters, no matter how attractive she might be.
- A Compromiser
Having disagreements is a perfectly normal part of a relationship. However, stubbornness and a “my way or the highway” only leads to misery. This is why men appreciate women who are able to negotiate and find a solution that satisfies both partners. This could be true for hobbies (i.e, the guy takes his girl to a football game in exchange for her taking him to a musical) but will especially come in handy when it comes to important matters such as raising children together.
- Confidence
A good boyfriend strives to make his Significant Other feel special, but there is nothing sexier than a woman who understands her own worth. Men might like a girl with a pretty face and nice figure, but if she is in need of constant reassurances that they are attractive or cannot accept a compliment, it will eventually wear a guy down and he will move on to a woman who is happy with who she is.
- A Complete Level of Trust
When it comes to relationships, neither partner can keep the other under 24-hour surveillance, nor should they. Constantly calling a guy to find out where he is or dictating which friends he can and can’t see will only create tension and foster distrust. Ultimately, feeling jealous and paranoid will never result in happiness. This is why men love dating women who can trust that they will be faithful.
- A Sense of Humour
A woman might be drop-dead gorgeous, but she will never win a place in a man’s heart unless she has the ability to make him laugh. A great sense of humour is the perfect way to alleviate stress and allows the couple to bond. A witty joke or an occasional sneaky, light-hearted prank will score a woman big time points with her man.
- A Willingness to Accept His Flaws
One of the keys to a healthy relationship is understanding that your partner is not perfect. This is why men want women who are not overly critical and who don’t seek to change them. If a woman can love him for his goofy fashion sense or his eccentric personality, they are on their way to relationship success
- Warmth
Being hot is no substitute for being warm. Men love women who act kind. This not only applies to the relationship, but also when she meets his friends and family. Nothing creates stability like winning over those who mean the most to her man.
- Creativity
It goes without saying that a relationship is more rewarding if the couple involved have a free-spirit and creative mind. It always keeps things interesting and creates a sense of purpose. For example, women who surprises her man by writing him a story or painting him a picture stands a great chance of winning his heart forever.
- Comfortable Making Decisions
There is nothing more frustrating than when a girlfriend is unable to make a decision about anything. This could be as minor as not being able to decide which restaurant to go to or as major as never wanting to make any decisions at all. This can especially lead to problems when the woman is never content with the decisions that her man makes. This is why men love dating women who say exactly what they want.
- Challenging
Men love a little challenge, it will keep him on his toes, it will surprise him, it might even make him question some of the things he believed. The point is that all these impacts on his perspective will happen because of you. Not only is that desirous but it is really attractive for a man
- Enthusiastic
Men love to see women get excited over something, anything actually. For this reason, they are entertained with our joy and energy. I dare you to take the time to observe your man’s face the next time that you get worked up over something. His grin is something that you will want to keep in your memory.
- Moralistic
Try to do right by what you think feels like the right thing to do. This reveals that you have a guilty conscious and can easily make mistakes. Ultimately showing him that you’re only human and he will be able to sympathize with a mutual feeling.
- Outspoken
Men love to hear what’s going through a woman’s mind; there is this satisfaction they get from knowing our thoughts. Be sure you express your opinion about things, as staying quiet will only make your man assume the worse.
- Decisive
I’m unsure if there is truly a quality that men like more than a woman who knows how to decide what she wants for dinner or can openly ask for what she wants from the other person. You need to have good mental and communicative skills to remain decisive about your choices. Once you put that practice into play, your significant other will idolize you
- Childish women
These type of women are immature. While they are able to make you laugh, they are not the right kind of people when it comes to being in a relationship and assuming responsibilities. They have a childish behaviour.