I am Grace from Runda, Nairobi. I have been suffering silently and now I want to make a decision.
My husband is a senior government official, he is exposed to many opportunities; I also own a restaurant in Nairobi CBD. We got married in 2010 and I have two children.
My husband is busy, most of the time he is in meetings abroad or within the city, the earliest he comes is 10pm.When he comes, he is tired and not interested in me.
My husband gives me everything I want, including money. He has made sure every week I get Ksh50,000 from him. He also takes me to Dubai for shopping, Mombasa during the festive season and top restaurants in Nairobi during public holidays. But despite all this, he has denied me my conjugal rights. To be honest, he sleeps with me once or twice a month. When I asks him why, he says,”si uko na pesa,uko na watoto,nyumba iko,nini tena unataka”.
Over time I have been persevering until October 2017 when I invited a plumber in my house. It occurred in the evening when my husband was in China.It was raining heavily and the plumber was in a hurry to go. I told him not to worry because the house is big.That night,I gave him one room to sleep.But sine my husband wasn’t round, it forced me to quench my thirst with him.
Since that time,we have been having a thing and I have come to love him because he has a good heart and is strong in bed,he is also available for me.
Last month, I discovered that my husband is having a Mpango wa Kando in Kileleshwa.I knew this from his friend. But I am not bothered at all because I am planning to leave Runda and start a new life with my plumber.I don’t care whether he has something or not.He lives in Githurai and I have been there twice.Am I making a mistake?