I am a Christian and I have accepted God as my savior. Over the past 7 years we have been struggling to get our first child but it seems God has forgotten me.We did a colourful wedding at JCC Nairobi 7 years ago.Our ambition was to have kids and live as a happy family.
My husband,who works as a Lawyer,has tried all his best to make me pregnant but he hasn’t managed.We have tried everything,including taking traditional herbs.Pastors have prayed for us,doctors have treated u,we have gone for cleansing in the village but none has worked.It’s last week my husband called me to the bedroom. During that evening,he looked sad and I knew there was something he wanted to tell me.
“My dear, sit here”, he told me.”You know, this issue of childlessness has really affected my health. I need one favour: if possible, please look for a handsome and intelligent man to give us a child”
I looked at him with tearly eyes,then I asked,”you mean,you want me to cheat on you?”
“Now that we have tried everything without success,we have to change our strategy”,he gently replied.
Since that day I have been sitting alone in the house wondering how to go about it.I don’t know whether it’s a set up or not.Please advice me.