While some men will walk upto a woman they like and take her over, it is not the province of women to boldly walk up to a man they like and declare her interest (though there are a few exceptions).
Because of this handicap, women therefore send very strong signals of affection or “wanting” which men need to pick if they are also interested in the bait. And they do these in car wash bays, swimming pools, churches, workshops, meetings, matatus, airplanes etc.
These are signs that a woman wants you and if you are a serial lothario, you fall in.
1. Stealing several glances at you and when you catch her looking at you, she quickly drops her eyes in total submission.
2. Biting of the small finger while she looks at you. This is their masterpiece. This is normally done in isolation or accompanied by a package eg. slightly open lips, dreamy eyes, titled head or rolling eyes.
3. Manufactured shyness when she is around you.
4. A woman will be sitting Infront of you and swinging her exposed thighs repeatedly. While this may be involuntary, it is not meaningless.
5. In Africa, the area from the waist down to the thighs is a sexual zone. A woman will expose a bit of the thighs and gently caress her own thighs to show what she wants.
6. Laughing at your jokes, whether funny or not.
7. Woman keeps letting her knees or feet and yours touch each other under the table in a restaurant, meeting etc.
8. Passing several times where you are seated while shaking the bum more than usual with chest pulled forward.
9. Other women will expose a bit of inner wear or cleavage in excess.
10. Smiling a lot when looking at those they admire. Your duty is to separate the normal from “a lot.”