My Father Wants to Marry Me After Dating Me for Three Years. Can I Accept his Proposal

My Father Wants to Marry Me After Dating Me for Three Years. Can I Accept his Proposal

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I am Mary from Busia.I have an issue I would like you to highlight. I am currently a student at MMUST.

My mother, who is now 47 years, got married while I was 17 years. My current father is not my biological parent but he takes care of me as his real child.However,we have been doing something behind my mother’s behind. Over the past three years, we have been dating and sleeping together with my father. We started as a joke one day when my mother was in the village. My father came to my room one night. I had not closed the door since I didn’t feel any threat. He forcefully slept with me .I felt embarrassed and almost told my mother but my father kept on giving me money not to tell anyone. That first night he gave me Ksh 10,000 and told me not to tell my mother.

Everytime we have intimacy, he gives me Ksh5,000.We sleep together at least once a month and it happens when my mother is away.

This week,he proposed to me, saying since he is not my biological father,he can go ahead and marry me.But what is bothering me is that he wants to chase away my mother.Since January 1,2018,she has been quarrelling with my mother and I suspect he might chase him any time from now.

I know I am the cause of my mother’s predicaments but I don’t have any option since my father pays school fees for me and takes care of all my bills.If I move out with my mother,I will miss everything from my father.

What I need from you is advice.

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