Tiras Muange has divorced his wife after living with her for 12 years. The Kamba man has been underperforming in all aspects, forcing the wife to seek services outside marriage. He accused her of sleeping with more than 50 men, most of them being married.
Here is the story from Muange:
THE LAST TESTAMENT
The WORST feeling for a man is when he tries to have a conversation with a woman about her BEHAVIOR that hurts him everyday, but instead of listening, she gets ANGRY and turns the situation around on him and makes him look like he’s the problem.
We have grown through tough challenging 12 years of our marriage. Through thick and thin, bad and good, lowest and highest moments of our lives, tumepingania Upendo wetu na tukavuka milima Na mabonde pamoja.
As I reflect on our journey and how far we have come, the good fruits are evident: 12 years to celebrate marriage, our kids, our families, our services to God, our friends and last our spiritual Sons and Daughters. However, the bad fruits (the bad repeated occurrences) keep breaking me down.
The vows we made to each other where to be faithful, loving and submissive and not limited to growing together. Lakini, nikiangalia nyuma, these ties are broken for reasons best known to you.
The many moments of secretive excitement, sex escapes, infidelity in hotel rooms, Airbnb’s and road trips is not worth the damage you’ve done. In 8 years now, you’ve given your heart to not one man but to many, and married, while breaking the hearts of their lovely wives. I pray that your wives will find the grace to forgive you Masila, KKyalo, Nzau, KSamuel, SKiilu, Benito, MTitus, King Muli, Major Jackson, BSingi, SMutuku, Polycarp, NRichard, KSila, MStephen, Cpt.Dan, KJohn, EGriffins, Nyanzwii, Tash, Zabuh among others to come.
Kwa Sasa, tumefika kilele cha uhusiano wetu kwa pamoja. The time to change is long gone. Kuwasiliana kwetu ni shida. Kufahamikiana ni taabu. Kusameheana ni lengo kuu hususan. The things we hope not for in our new tide of love keep re-occurring and hence are being repeated in a bigger and bitter move. Mbona yafanyike tena kwa kurundiwa? Why repeat the harm and pain in extra-marital affairs, infidelity and adultery?
Mbona usiniheshimishe Kwa vikao vyako? Mbona hupeane Sifa mbaya kunihusu ata Kwa familia hila unajua wasema uwongo? Mbona usiheshimu madhabahu unayo hudumu?
My heart is in pain, and my life is broken. Am lacking peace by not getting the right conditions and environment to heal. Your temperamental outbursts, kunikelelesha for no reason, madharau Na kunikosea heshima have brought me down Na kunimaliza.
My God give me the peace which surpasses all human understanding. YOU ARE NOW A FREE BIRD, Go have sex without perching.
I NEED PEACE AND THE ROOM TO FIND MY GROUND IN ALL THIS.
