Akothee is not a happy woman. The drama queen has accused her first husband of being a deadbeat dad. On her social media,Akothee write a letter detailing how Okello has abandoned his family.Here are the two letters:
“Letter To Mr Jared Okello As you Celebrate your birthday just know!
I have respected you for a very long time. However, I have come to realise that you have been taking advantage of my kindness, and I can no longer ignore it.
There is no honesty in publicly praising and celebrating children you do not support privately. Showing up on social media with poems and praises while failing to take financial responsibility is misleading and unfair , not just to the children, but to the world watching.
We understood who you are after our third-born’s wedding. That is when I drew my boundaries clearly. Recently, I anticipated that you might want to associate yourself with the Oxford master’s graduation, if and when it happens. I asked my daughter to share an excel sheet outlining where you would come in., because I know You willl be burning to attend the graduation , just incase we get there
That was a test , YOU WENT QUIET DADDY !
You went silent baba vesha we are talking about 6.5m ksh here. Hata heri ungechukua lipa polepole ya hiyo 500k jakamagambo
From this point forward, I am not comfortable with you posting or claiming my children’s milestones. It feels like clout chasing and validation-seeking, while the real work and responsibility are absent. Please, put your mouth where your money is. You have full access to your children , support them properly and stop misleading the public and other absentee fathers.
Secondly, I stopped coming to your home not because I am inhumane or disconnected from my children, but because the women who came after me made it clear I was not welcome. I will not tolerate disrespect or hostility. That is also why I did not attend Niyocholas’ burial.
I still love my family, especially my former mother-in-law , she remains the only grandmother my children have. From the fathers side My children will always come home. I will not.
I chose clarity over explanation, I am not a daughter inlaw to that family I am a baby mama with some intrests my children have a father there we dont need to be included in any division of wealth my children are OK jakwath
Happy birthday day daddy jared”
Here is another letter:
Sorry, Mr. Jared.
I posted this because I feel you have been deeply insensitive.
I welcomed you back into our lives,,not as romantic partners, but as fellow parents. That door was never closed. What hurts is that while your presence on social media is loud and celebratory, your presence on the ground—in your children’s lives—m,is almost nonexistent.
Your actions online are hurting our children. They see the praise, the poems, the public image. But they also live the silence. They feel the absence. They know the truth.
I have never depended on you financially, and I still do not. I raised these children knowing they would always be my responsibility. But once you chose to reappear both publicly and privately, I expected effort. Accountability. Even the smallest sign of intention. Hata ka ni 50k ingeonyesha you tried.
Our daughter, Vesha Shillan, reached out to you in October last year to inform you that she was joining Oxford. That took courage. It was her way of saying, “I want you to be part of my life.” The silence that followed spoke louder than words.
Another time, our third-born sent me money and told me she had sent you the same amount. I REMEMBERED THE DAY I SLEPT AT THE POLICE STATION ARRESTED FOR LOITERING AT NIGHT WITHOUT AN ID. JARED YOU KNOW YOU REFUSED WITH MY DOCUMENTS FOR 2 YEARS MY BROTHERS HAD TO FORCE YOU TO SURRENDER. That moment broke something in me. It reminded me of the years when I had to rely on favors,like staying with a married man who owned a clinic,just so our sick child could receive free treatment. That is a memory no mother ever forgets.
I once called you to help on prudence medical care any form of insurance You told me you had a new family.
That sentence ended many conversations I never got to have.
I never denied you access to your children. Not once. But access without responsibility is just a shadow. And shadows do not raise children.
This is not about money.
It is about presence.
It is about effort.
It is about honesty.
Our children deserved better.
Tired of picking ip my kids once you break them it breaks me
And the truth, however painful, needed to be said.
When your children come back and ask me ” mum what’s wrong with dad” what do you expect me to reply my fellow parent?
