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I Feel Nervous When Approaching Women-I have Lost Countless Chances. Please Advise Me How To Approach Them

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My name is Kosgei from Nandi and I am a graduate of Psychology and Counseling.

There is something that has been giving me sleepless nights. I am 38 years old and not married but I am seriously desperate for a wife. However, I feel that I am the most useless man alive. Every time I try to talk to a lady, she sneers at me, prompting me to shy away and never have courage to approach another one.

I have approached more than 30 of them but no one has ever accepted my offer. I even use money sometimes but when they eat my money and they are sure I am broke, they stop picking my calls. I am now left alone like a church mouse, wondering how on earth I can get someone who understands me.

I know I am ugly, even my sister tells me-my mirror can bear me witness too-but it’s unfair for everyone to refuse me.

God says that every creature, whether ugly or beautiful, should have its partner. But I have come to realize this verse was not written for me.

I need one favour.Please tell me how to approach them, because I sweat a lot when I approach one.