I am Sophie from Nyeri.I have an issue I want you to help me solve.I am in real problems because my boyfriend might dump me any time.
We started dating 7 years ago with Charles. While he was in Kenya,we didn’t have a child and fortunately, he got a scholarship to the US.He has been living there since then.Charles comes to visit me almost every year and each time he comes, he makes sure I am comfortable.
For the seven years we have known each other, we have sired 3 children. Whenever Charles comes to Kenya, he makes sure he has made me pregnant, but unfortunately, he doesn’t know all the pregnancies aren’t his.I am also a human being and I have feelings. It’s unfortunate that I sometimes don’t use protection on other men who sleep with me,I have ended up giving birth to children who are not sired by Charles.
Since the beginning of the year, Charles has been pressurizing me to do DNA test for our three children before we formalize our marriage and finally relocate to the US.I have been dodging this question but it now seems he is serious. Last week he mentioned that if I don’t pay attention to what he is telling meme might abandon me and the children. I fear because none of our children belongs to him and I fear if I tell him, he will leave me forever. What I am facing right now is tough, I only want you to advise me.Charles is the one who pays the school fees for my children, he even supports me financially. If he discovers I have been cheating on him, he might even kill me.
